"Misery loves company by now you should know people always have advice about being together when their all alone" - Dru Hill
For anybody that really knows me, this is one of my absolute favorite lyrics from a song. I quote it alllllll the time. Its so very true. A lot of times we ask people for advice when they're not in a suitable situation to give advice. How can a single individual give me advice about making my relationship work when they aint got no man. AND yes i said aint got no. but seriously thats really crazy. a lot of times i thing back on the advice i have taken from people. many times it wasnt good advice. it was just something i wanted to hear. it was like my so called friends were just spoon feeding my ego and intellect. nobody wanted to say baby girl you wrong or thats not the right mindset to have you have to look at it another way.
Now when i look to people for advice i pray before hand. I pray that my heart and mind are open to accept that which is right no matter what is being said. i have to be able to humble myself enough to know that i will be wrong more often that right. but with the Lord on my side i will always have wisdom to gain from my experiences. i have truly learned that its okay to be wrong when im wrong and right when im right. it doesnt take away from the beautiful mind i was blessed with and the great things that are coming to me.
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